“Yoga Goddess, 

I have debated reaching out…but felt it was important for you to know that you have a secret ally in your corner.

I am sorry life is sucking so very badly…

This is not the way you imagined….anything.

I can not imagine what you are going through, but I can empathize as we spent nearly a decade trying to build a family.

When we were trying there was not a lot of resources and still a lot of stigma.

I found this site very helpful for resources and knowledge:

she has organized everything (left side) under topics and it might help in some way.

https://www.stirrup-queens.com

Please forgive me if I have overstepped or made you feel like you haven’t thought of this yourself.

I am happy to answer any questions you might have or 

help in anyway you might find you are in need of.

I continue to be a dedicated yogi, and friendly face in the crowd.

Smiles and hopes,

The Barreness “

I was haunted with words of advice for the owner of the studio I practice at when:

 she made the start of her IVF journey public knowledge.

Then came the public spreadsheet of drug costs

and

then came the crowd funding page set up by a friend.

I was going to tell her that pain does not equate your desire to be a mother.

That simply putting the desire out was enough

but then I realized that she is most likely getting an earful…so I sent the email above.

She responded soon there after, kindly:

“Thank you so much Barreness this means a lot to me!

I’m proud of you for reaching out, and so happy you did. 

I will definitely check out the site you sent over. 

Love you tons!

Xoxo

Yoga Goddess”

At the end of the day I saw it as a call to action.

It was more important to reach out to a fellow woman in need than

sit and watch how this all unfolded…